Hey there blogspotters, long time no see! Lets get straight to it.....
Maybe I am just being hard on myself,
but I have made some really bad choices in men. The last serious relationship I had with a man was the absolute worst encounter to date. He was so ridiculously narcissistic and manipulative as well as a habitual liar and creative story-teller.
Anytime he told me something he would constantly change up his story. One minute he states that he is going to law school in Vermont to play basketball then all of a sudden he never went there, he says he actually stayed in Detroit and went to a local community college. While he's telling me this stuff, he forgot that he told me he already had is bachelors degree, but if this is so why would he still take undergraduate courses at a community college?
Makes no sense --and it doesn't add up! This is how all of his stories ended up. They initially went one way, then the next time he brought it up, it would be a totally different scenario.

His ability to consistently tell lies had me on a constant hunt for the truth. I would literally have to launch my own investigation just to seek the absolute truth. I always got the same outcome -- he was lying. Although I found out the truth to the lies he told, do you think he is man enough to admit his deceit?
NOPE! He actually thinks I am wrong for
"snooping in his business" --and a stalker by the way-- because I go looking for the truth "behind his back". I actually felt like I have a right to know the truth since at one point he was my fiance and even after we were no longer in a "relationship" we remained intimate ---
which was the ultimate mistake.
(Ladies I don't recommend being intimate with ex-boyfriends who were terrible boyfriends to begin with-I tend to let my boredom dictate my actions and therefore kept this idiot around simply to keep me company -- yes I know, very stupid)
So my question is: Am I wrong for seeking the truth even when I know he is lying anyway? When he lies should I just point it out or let go?
My answer - I decided to leave him alone! I asked him to refrain from contacting me but he tends to find a reason to contact me so he can somehow have the last word. Its apart of the whole narcissistic, manipulative attitude he has. Today was the last straw! It's sad really.
I am not perfect and I blame myself 100% for this because I continued to be involved with him --trying to give him the benefit of the doubt--but still I got the same outcome...so my declaration is this:
This type of thing has taken it's toll on me for the last time. The next time around I will be smarter about the choices I make when choosing a mate. I believe I owe it to myself to pick the right guy when my times comes...because lords knows I have made mistakes with men. Especially choosing the right one.
Peace**